After weeks of guesswork, Kate Middleton revealed the sad news that she has been diagnosed with cancer.
In a video posted on the couple’s Instagram page, the Princess of Wales shared that the diagnosis had been a ‘big surprise’ for her and her husband, Prince William.
In particular, the 42-year-old explained that they have spent the last few weeks trying to ‘process and manage’ the news for the sake of their young family.
‘It has taken us time to explain everything to George, Charlotte and Louis in a way that’s appropriate for them, and to reassure them that I’m going to be okay,’ Kate said.
‘I am well, and getting stronger every day by focusing on the things that will help me heal.’
Talking about cancer is tough, but it can be even harder as a parent to know how to explain your diagnosis to your child.
However, it’s important to be truthful with your children. And while you may want to get advice from your medical team, or a therapist, before you start the discussions, keep in mind that being open will ultimately help them understand, feel more secure, and cope with their own feelings.
View the initial conversation as a starting point – you don’t need to have all the answers right away, and there are likely to be more discussions going forward.
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The Macmillan website states: ‘Be as prepared as you can. Make sure you have all the information you need and that you understand it.
‘You may want to think about the questions a child might ask and the words you will use to explain things.’
Macmillan also encourages parents to remind children that they did not cause the cancer, and that it is not something you can catch.
And to ensure they aren’t left with any unanswered questions, the charity recommends reassuring them that they can always ask you about whatever they need to know, and that you will listen to any fears or concerns they have.
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